Daniel Satinsky: Remembering. I think I remember you telling me about it. I don't remember the exact number but.
Stan Rosenberg: Something like 300,000.
Daniel Satinsky: And so people's commitment was to you and the work you were doing. And they knew there were tangible results on the other side I assume.
Stan Rosenberg: Yes. And then it became part of their portfolio because a lot of them ended up coming over. And participating. Some of them were on calls. You know, they got reports from us about what was happening as you just said. So it was very concrete. But eventually they became invested as well. The better they knew us.
Daniel Satinsky: Right. And this project had at its base to build bridges between Massachusetts people and people in Pskov, correct?
Stan Rosenberg: Totally.
Daniel Satinsky: And while you were doing that, I mean I guess what I'm trying to ask, you know, trying to figure out how to get at when I went to ask which is, were you felt you were building a better world if you will through this.
Stan Rosenberg: The Cuno.
Daniel Satinsky: Yeah. And so it.
Stan Rosenberg: Was a personal commitment. It grew out of helping a friend at UMass. Which helped me because I get paid I think $7,000 for teaching the course. Maybe it was 3,000. I don't remember but I got to spend and I got to go to Russia for the first time. This is paid. But at that point of course coming to Russia all expenses paid wouldn't that mean staying in a $5 a night hotel room with brown water. On a board for a bed? You didn't have a choice of food. I got three squares a day. When you walk into the restaurant area of the hotel and whatever they put in front of you is what you ate.
Daniel Satinsky: Okay.
Stan Rosenberg: So like I was at home. And by the way, I lost 5 pounds and I never ate better.
Daniel Satinsky: Okay.
Stan Rosenberg: Really good. I walked to work every day at the university and at the Polytechnic. And it was a mile and a half walk from the hotel. And it was November. So it was cold. And so yeah, I experienced my first. That was my very first trip. And I was experiencing the beginning of winter.
Daniel Satinsky: And did you at any point say to yourself why did I do this? Or were you also the opposite saying wow this is just.
Stan Rosenberg: No I didn't. It was the opposite. It's in my nature to roll from one thing to the other. Once something starts I may. I don't give up on something. And when I see an opportunity it's the first opportunity was to do something I'd never done before. Teach a course. Go to Russia. Experience three weeks in Russia. And you know I was a legislator. And at that time salaries were quite low. So you know supplemental income. And then it came back to me and said would you continue? I didn't hesitate for a second. I said absolutely. And by the way that first trip that it was so hard you know and I remember the weekend before the final week of our stay there the other teacher and I were in a van going to a jury to see the caves as a tourism thing. And we were quiet in the van and we turned to each other at one point and we could both tell what the other was thinking and we were on the verge of tears because we were so tired of the gray. Everything was gray. The buildings were gray, the rooms were gray, the food was gray, the people were gray, the sky was gray. Everything was gray and it was cold. And we never saw. We hardly ever saw anyone smile. Everyone you know we were still strangers to them. Number one. Number two I was a government official so people were afraid of me. Because the word of course got around. He's a senator. He lives large in America. And because they got it wrong. Didn't live large in America. I live large in Massachusetts. But even then that would be a somewhat of an exaggeration. But I did not hesitate for a second when I got the opportunity to continue because once I got home and reflected on the visit and the experience I said jeez this is so important. And the real opportunity to be helpful. And incidentally I'll tell you this other piece I starting about my fifth sixth seventh visit. I gently asked my, our contact Tatiana Romance of is there a Jewish community in Pskov? And she who? She's a very deeply religious woman, very very used to church all the time. Very motivated by Russian Orthodox church values. So she was kind of looked a little bit odd awkward at the moment when I asked it. But I guess it in a way probably didn't surprise her. And she said no there is no identified Jewish community here. And I asked the question a few more times over the subsequent years. Any change in the status? And then one year I had to. I occasionally went over by myself when things were getting a little rocky in terms of planning the next exchange. So sometimes I would fly over myself and spend a week and a half to try to move things along. And at this particular time I had to make a decision whether to do it or not. And the only time I could do it was during Passover week. I guess I just decided I got to do this so I'm just going to do it. Because we were very deep into the relationship by then. I mean we were 12-15 years in.
Daniel Satinsky: Wow.
Stan Rosenberg: So my first trip was probably sometime in 92 or early 93. So if you do the math it probably was over 20 years. And I'll tell you in a minute why the relationship went. Because it's different today than it was. But to finish up the story because it's a really good story, I showed up for this visit in April and I came down the elevator to the lobby of the hotel to get my ride and I'm early as I usually try to be. And I'm standing in the lobby and I'm positioned in a way that I can see the elevator. And I heard the elevator door open and I just happened to glance over and out walked two guys with black suits black hats. White shirts. And I say.
Daniel Satinsky: I see them.
Stan Rosenberg: Yes. And I thought to myself. What are they doing here? And they walked into the lobby and they were obviously waiting for their ride. And so I'm looking at them and they see me looking at them and then they're looking at me. And so finally I walk over and I said excuse me do you speak English? And the guy said Everybody in Brooklyn speaks. I said okay. I said what are you doing here? And he said we're here from Yeshiva University and we are going to be leading Seder here at the Jewish Community Center. And I said really? And they said yeah. And then I said thank you. And I walked away and they chatted a little bit and then they walked over to me and they said well you seem to be interested in this. So we have some chicken soup cooking in the room. We have extra mats. We have extra wine if you'd like. We'd be happy to share it with you. And I said that's very nice of you but I'd rather go to the Seder. And I said really? And I said yes. And I said okay. So let's see what we can arrange. And I told this to Tatiana Tanya Romance of when she arrived. And she said oh yes we have a Jewish community center now. So really tell me about this. And she said well about six months ago the mayor got a call from somebody in town and she mentioned the woman's name who told the mayor that they had been funded by an international Jewish organization to open a Jewish community center in Pskov. And they had purchased an apartment in one of the apartment buildings at the basement the first floor. And they were going to officially open the center. And would he come to the official opening? And so of course he consulted with Tanya who was his foreign affairs person and community affairs person and said of course you should do this. And so she said the mayor officially opened the center with them about three months ago.
Daniel Satinsky: Wow.
Stan Rosenberg: And I then told her my story and said I'd really like to go to the Seder. She asked when it was, and I said tonight. She said, well, we have a dinner planned with a group of people, but I think I can arrange it if you can stop by and do a toast with them at the official dinner, and then we'll give you a ride over to the Jewish Community Center. We agreed and did it. I went to the first Seder in Pskov since 1917. What an experience. It was overwhelming. The story as it unfolded that night, I won't bore you with all the details, but it went on for a couple of hours. There were people in their 80s, and toward the middle of the Seder before the meal, there was a knock on the door which brought silence to the room. This had happened repeatedly through the evening. Every time somebody new arrived, there was a knock on the door and everybody went quiet. Somebody went to the door and looked through the hole. The last group to come in were two kids, one high school age and one college age. It was like a scene in a movie. The door opens and the kids walk in. The place went crazy. People were jumping up and down and crying. They had not seen children in 80 years. They thought their kids were lost. They thought their grandchildren were lost. They thought the community was lost. It turns out that these two kids had learned about their Jewish heritage because somebody had come to speak to their school about the new Jewish Community Center. They realized that their grandparents were Jewish. So they went home and said to their parents, we want to learn about our Jewish heritage. The parents said we can't tell you anything because our parents never talked about it. The kids convinced their parents to let them explore their heritage. That night they came to the Seder.
Daniel Satinsky: Incredible.
Stan Rosenberg: It was so moving.
Daniel Satinsky: And these people considered themselves Jewish, although they hadn't practiced their religion.
Stan Rosenberg: And knew they had Jewish roots. They identified about 140 individuals in the community. Many of them started to frequent the Jewish Community Center. I raised money for that, too. I arranged for money to bring a rabbi once a month to Pskov for Jewish education and religious ceremonies. That lasted five years.
Daniel Satinsky: Where was this rabbi from?
Stan Rosenberg: Saint Petersburg.
Daniel Satinsky: Oh, okay.
Stan Rosenberg: It was an Orthodox rabbi, and there was some trepidation about it being Orthodox, but it is what it is.
Daniel Satinsky: But there's no reform anywhere in the world except the U.S.
Stan Rosenberg: Right. Then, I raised money for four years in a row for them to do a Shabbat weekend at a camp. They would leave the city, go into the country, and spend Friday night through Sunday morning. They did Shabbat in the camp and arranged to have a rabbi stay with them.
Daniel Satinsky: Wow. It's amazing. I mean, in theory, it should have been pretty easy to identify people as Jewish because their passports would have indicated that they were Jewish.
Stan Rosenberg: When I asked the question, I was asking a government official. A general question: is there an organized Jewish community? And the answer was no.
Daniel Satinsky: There wasn't, right?
Stan Rosenberg: And eventually there was. On my next trip, she put something on the agenda that I didn't recognize. It turned out she took me to a place where there was a stone erected in memory of a pogrom that occurred in Pskov. We did Kaddish. I asked if she minded and...
Daniel Satinsky: Those kinds of experiences, they just hit so deep emotionally, you know?
Stan Rosenberg: Yeah.
Daniel Satinsky: They do.
Stan Rosenberg: She was fantastic. We were like brother and sister. We got so close, and she eventually started confiding in me. We went to her mother's home, and her mother made khachapuri for us every year. She couldn't wait to see us. Tanya was just that kind of person. So when I raised the religious thing, it was very important to her because she was deeply religious. It meant a lot.
Daniel Satinsky: Even though you didn't have the same spirituality, you had a spiritual side to your life that you could share and reveal.
Stan Rosenberg: In the second grant, which was the three-year US grant, we started being invited to people's homes. When we went into people's homes, we saw how simply and compactly the average person lived. The second was the food. We figured that a whole month's food was on the table when we walked in.
Daniel Satinsky: The hospitality and the sense...
Stan Rosenberg: Yeah.
Daniel Satinsky: ...of hospitality was so important to them, that they were willing to give you whatever they had. And so that's all part of the relationship that you built.
Stan Rosenberg: Because we were in their homes, they started to relax more and tell us about their family, show us pictures. We were mostly political people at the beginning. We were academic and political people, but there were always political people in the group. Some of us were with the academics, so we were the icebreakers. The politicians took care of creating a friendly environment, courtesy, excitement, and appreciation of being in their homes. So the relationship started to grow right away.
Daniel Satinsky: Yeah.
Stan Rosenberg: And so by the second or third time, you know, the grant went on for three years. So maybe the second or the third time, they've now invited their kids, they've invited the grandkids, and we started to get a real sense of familiarity with each other. It was so.
Daniel Satinsky: And it's these relationships more than any grand ideals of U.S.-Russia friendship that really drive this.
Stan Rosenberg: Yeah, totally. They would say things like, governments don't tell the truth. We were smart enough to know that America wasn't the basket case that was being presented to us. And we said, we know that Russian people are just like us. They have families, they have jobs, they want to get their kids educated. So we're all the same. Governments are governments, people are people.
Daniel Satinsky: So when Clinton bombed Belgrade, did that impact your relationships? Did people want to know from you why this happened? Was it part of your discourse?
Stan Rosenberg: We would exchange. Basically, if you think about it this way, we were there one week a year, right? If there was a second trip, it was usually me for one week. So for 50 weeks, none of us were with them. So before the bad things that happened on both sides, there was a very small chance that we were actually present with each other when it was going on. So there were exchanges of emails, usually very carefully written on either side or both sides, depending upon the situation. You remember when the submarines, a bunch of Russian sailors died in a submarine accident? So whenever things like that happened, we would exchange heartfelt expressions of condolence and sympathy and unity with them in spirit, and they would do the same with us. So any time there was something significant that was painful on either side, the other side would respond by reaching out. Always reaching out first and then the other side expressing appreciation for caring enough.
Daniel Satinsky: And so, outside of the people you were close with, was there suspicion? Were the security services wanting to know, well, what are these people really doing?
Stan Rosenberg: We knew we were being followed at various times. The first six years, ten visits, everything was in the guardrails. Everything was scheduled. We didn't veer off. The bar that people went to in the evening was in the hotel. We could tell the people who were sitting in the lobby who were FSB or whatever. We knew, we felt and understood their presence. As the years went on, the oligarch Viktor started playing a role around that, where he would have his boys aware of where we were going and what we were doing. Things loosened up. Members of our delegation would go to a club on their own without a translator, without anybody official. But there was always somebody there, even though they didn't know it. It wasn't the government people. There may have been government people, but Viktor also had people. There were times when somebody in our group got themselves into a difficult situation because they'd had too much to drink, didn't know enough of the social norms, didn't know the language. We had one member of our delegation who was black, and he was spit on walking down the street. Viktor took care of things like that. When one of our delegation got in a bit of a problem, there were 2 or 3 other members of the delegation with them. Somebody came over and in Russian spoke to the guys who were creating the situation, and it ended.
Daniel Satinsky: I see. So Viktor was, to use the Russian word, he was your "krisha," right?
Stan Rosenberg: No, he was...
Daniel Satinsky: "Krisha" means roof. But it's...
Stan Rosenberg: Not because...
Daniel Satinsky: Everybody had to have a "krisha," meaning oversight by somebody important, right?
Stan Rosenberg: He was ours. He was our guy. By the way, can you say what time it is? Because I have a two...
Daniel Satinsky: Yeah, it's 1:36, and you have until two.
Stan Rosenberg: So Viktor was that to us. He called us brother and sister. Terry was his sister. Stan and Mark were his brothers. I stayed at his home while everybody else was at the hotel. For probably the last 7 to 10 visits, I stayed in his house instead of at the hotel. So we became part of the fabric of this community, of people who were also connected with each other there. We became part of that community.
Daniel Satinsky: And how did Viktor make his money?
Stan Rosenberg: When the wall came down and they started dividing up the roles and the assets, he was on the business side for the first number of years. He then ran for governor unsuccessfully, so he never actually went into the government. But he got the paper factory, he got a ton of forests, he got the fishing boats, he got the canneries, he got the telecommunications. He was the oligarch for the region in charge of all of those pieces. And he built business from there.
Daniel Satinsky: Okay, so which of these projects that you did over this period of time are you most proud of?
Stan Rosenberg: It's not the projects, it's the relationships. The depth of the relationship, the sincerity of the connection that got developed. It's exactly what countries and people should be doing. Through citizen diplomacy, right on the street level, we were developing these kinds of relationships, and people learned about us and what we would do. We were in the press for the last 15 years of the relationship. We were in the press every visit. Announcing projects, announcing grants, and they organized all of that. We didn't do any of that. So we would be interviewed by TV, we would do press conferences, and they just loved having their American friends there.
Daniel Satinsky: Right.
Stan Rosenberg: And people would recognize us on the streets.
Daniel Satinsky: They'd see you on TV or...
Stan Rosenberg: And after 5 or 7 years of that, even if they didn't see us this time, some people might recognize us because we were back again.
Daniel Satinsky: Exactly. Most people didn't go back again. So, what's the backside of that and what remains of this relationship?
Stan Rosenberg: Okay. So, this is the careful part. When Putin was reelected and came back into government, he started to shut down the mechanisms that encouraged exchange, citizen diplomacy, and the growth of NGOs (non-governmental organizations). There weren't a lot of NGOs, but we connected with many of the existing or developing NGOs in Pskov. New laws were passed that were discriminatory against gay individuals, and at least two members of our delegation were regularly gay. So, the decision was made that if we can't all go, we're not going to go because that would mean discriminating against members of the group. We stopped traveling back and forth. I got there 24 times; my 25th time, I was battling cancer and had to cancel, but the group went, and that ended up being the last visit. That was about seven years ago, around 2015.
Daniel Satinsky: 2015.
Stan Rosenberg: I never got to go as Senate President. The laws got passed after that, and the relationship continues in the following way: for most of the last five years, I still had money available in an account. When I had a courier, I'd send $5,000 or $10,000 at a time, and somebody from Pskov would go to Saint Petersburg for coffee to say hello to my friend. That supported the continuation of programs for another 4 or 5 years. There's still money in the account, about $30,000, but I've not been able to connect with the woman who was running the foundation. I fear she may have passed. Tanya Romance of has been battling cancer for the last six months, and we're in almost weekly touch. She said she's in good spirits but still fighting. There is another friend there, also named Tanya, who would pick up where she left off if necessary. But without finding Nora, I'm not raising expectations because I don't have money to give or a position from which to raise money anymore.
Daniel Satinsky: You know, I think it might have been Kovalenko who is a fitness nut and a Facebook friend of mine. He was just in Skoff with his family. This UMass connection and these people who came with it, right? If you decide you want to try to follow up, they would be people to talk to.
Stan Rosenberg: About Sergei. Sergei's wife is Natasha. They go to Skoff at least once every year or two. That would be the logical way to handle this. I'll redouble my interest in finding out where the money is. I didn't even think about that.
Daniel Satinsky: And the other woman I talked to, Sasha, a professional. I don't know if you remember her.
Stan Rosenberg: I remember her, I didn't know her well, but I've met her.
Daniel Satinsky: I haven't talked to these people in several years. There were lots of reasons to at one time and there haven't been recently.
Stan Rosenberg: Right.
Daniel Satinsky: If I can be of help to you in doing that, just let me know.
Stan Rosenberg: Thinking about Sergei, why didn't I think about that? I know how to reach him, and I know he goes every year or two. He and Natasha bought a beautiful apartment. They were fixing it up, and her parents were going to live there until they move back to Skoff, which I assume they'll probably retire there. I don't think they're going to give up their careers here.
Daniel Satinsky: Do you think Terry Murray would be willing to talk to me about all this stuff or interested in talking to me?
Stan Rosenberg: I think she probably would because she loved that whole chapter and really got into it. If you wanted to do that, just between you and me, she and I haven't spoken for a few years. She was part of bringing me down. She helped me get there, but when things went sideways, some of her friends were unhappy that I got there. When they saw the opportunity to take me out, they joined in. I'll never say that to her. Someday I may talk with her, but in politics, a lot goes unsaid. I don't want to be part of connecting you, but we should think about how you could do that.
Daniel Satinsky: Yeah, that's very unfortunate. I'm sorry that I think.
Stan Rosenberg: And she helped me get there.
Daniel Satinsky: Right.
Stan Rosenberg: But she had a bunch of friends who were unhappy that I got there. When things went sideways, they saw the opportunity to take me out and joined in to make sure it happened. I'll never say that to her, and someday I may talk with her, but in politics, a lot goes unsaid.